What I Know for Sure,…

for sure

………some of which I only truly understood, within the past year.


Ultimately, no matter how great a friend you have, there are some occasions or experiences in life, where you truly have to go through them alone, and pray open arms are waiting for you at the end, if you’ve survived.


Never doubt your own abilities and put external hopes on anyone else, regardless of how much more capable they seem, or say they are. You will usually end up with a whole lot of nothing and a lot of wasted time. Trust yourself first.


Your bank is not your friend. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been with them, or how good your record is, if you do not meet their bottom line, just forget about any help from them. Your goal in life is not to be able to get into the bank to get assistance, but out of it and as far away as possible, outside of using them as a place to save your money. It may take longer , but you do get to move around without their nigger noose around your neck.


LOVE and HATE can never be friends, but that’s okay. They don’t have to be. They are already siblings from the same mother, just different fathers.  Just accept that whether deserved or not, people will one or the other you. True worthiness is of no consequence.


Struggle keeps you physically and emotionally fit. I got the muscle to prove it! lol


You cannot un-fuck someone. Not even in your mind. lolol It happened! 😀 Deal with it, or kill them to prevent them from talking, if it’s that regrettable. lolol. Choose your concubines wisely.


Obscurity is man’s biggest fear. We all want to matter in some way or be known for something. Unfortunately for some of us, even being known for something horrific, is better than being not known.


Learning to truly love yourself, is the hardest kind of love to fall in. Cupid doesn’t shoot self love arrows. That you gotta do on your own.


People will literally buy the biggest pile of bullshit, if the right person was selling  it.


The lie you tell to successfully take you  out of  this situation, is the catalyst to a worse predicament. Tell the truth mutha f*^kas (Smauel Jackson voice.)


Contrary to many popular songs, and all kinds of deep thinkers, you can buy love. However, the kind you can buy is very expensive.l ol 😀 Eh tu Jenniffer Lopez. Ya lying ass.


About bak2moi

I am a woman trying to balance motherhood and womanhood, while pursuing her dreams. Hopefully I get to keep at least foot on the ground during the process.
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One Response to What I Know for Sure,…

  1. Denese says:

    Ain’t that the truth.

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